How To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back

Sorry about your breakup, I know that you're probably in a lot of pain and very confused. It's easy to obsess about every little thing you said and did trying to figure out what went wrong. Instead of doing that though, use these tips on how to get you ex boyfriend back.

Before I go over the steps you will need to follow, you need to take some time and honestly reflect on the relationship. Is it truly worth saving? It's not just about whether or not you love your ex, it's about whether or not he loved you, how he treated you, etc. These are issues you have to be honest with yourself about before you can decide whether you should even try to get back together.

And of course, if there was any type of abuse, even verbal abuse, you should never think about getting back with your ex unless he starts doing some serious work with a therapist.

If after you've carefully considered the issues I mentioned above you can honestly say that you think the two of you had a good relationship for the most part, here are a few things you should do to get him back. It may not work for everyone but these tips have worked for a lot of people and will probably work for you too.

1. Don't crowd him. Give him space and don't worry that he'll meet another girl. He might, but if he still loves you he won't actually fall in love with anyone else and it could even make him feel lonely for you. When you love someone, no one else is ever good enough. So even if he does start dating if he still has a spark for you it's very unlikely that he will fall for anyone else. Be patient.

2. This step goes along with step #1, don't contact him excessively. He needs to have time to miss you and how can he do that if you're always on the phone to him? Don't forget, guys can be a little ego driven. He might like the idea of you sitting on the side lines just waiting for him to make up his mind. If he knows you're a 'sure thing' he can take his time. You don't want him to think of you that way, you want him to realize that you are great and that he better make his mind up fairly soon or he may lose you forever.

3. Don't think that you are perfect. No matter why the relationship ended and who was most at fault, there is almost always enough blame to go around. It's important for you to honestly face whatever issues you may have and address them before you can even think of getting back with your ex. If you don't the two of you will just repeat the same mistakes you made before, and who wants to repeat all that pain and misery?

Follow these three tips on how to get you ex boyfriend back. It's not a guarantee but it's a common sense method that works more often than not. After all, what do you have to lose?